The things we’re doing this Advent season are certainly not revolutionary, but they are intentional.

As I stated last time, in the past we’ve done little more than read Christ’s birth narrative in Luke to prepare for Christmas, however I wanted this year to be different.

To get us moving down a more contemplative path, I found this great Advent Wreath at our local Family Christian Store (I have since added the white center candle). We decided it should live at the center of our table so it receives our attention during supper.

Next, I searched online for candle readings to accompany our lighting of each candle. Of course, in the spirit of Advent, our kids fight over who gets to light each one…something we’re trying to combat by talking about silent nights and sleeping in heavenly peace.

Making the point of having this “wreath” on our dining room table also forces us to sit down and enjoy our meals at a more leisurely pace —- something that, frankly, is difficult with my husband’s work schedule and our evening activities, but something we strive for nonetheless.

Lastly, although the shiny centerpieces at Costco did garner my attention and brief consideration, I’m trying to simplify this year and find small ways to draw our family closer to the manger.

• We left our fireplace mantle a little less adorned.
• We haven’t hung up our stockings yet — those will go up on Christmas Eve.
• We gave ourselves the freedom to throw away the decorations we bought at newlyweds 13 years ago, and only hung up those things that we find beautiful and special.